My look: Deliberate O gown Red from Wild Orchid, Body by Maitreya, Tattoos by Erratic (dark colors), pose by Lumiya 2017.
They tell me that time apart makes the heart grow fonder. Helps you cherish the moments you do have together. I’d have to say that is incredibly true. I’ve learned that within the last 5 months of time.
“The one thing I know for sure is that feelings are rarely mutual, so when they are, drop everything, forget the belongings and expectations, forget the games, the two days between texts, the hard to gets because this is it, this is what the entire world is after and you’ve stumbled upon it by chance, by accident–so take a deep breath, take a step forward, now run, collide like planets in the system of a dying sun, embrace each other with both arms and let all the rules, the opinions and common sense crash down around you. Because this is love kid, and it’s all yours. Believe me, you’re in for one hell of a ride, after all–this is the one thing I know for sure.” — Beau Taplin
When a couple has time apart or time to each persons different hobbies and different things they love, it makes the time they do spend together absolutely beautiful and irreplaceable. The time we spend together is time well spent.. the time we spend apart is the time we learn that we are still in love with not only ourselves but with them in return… each person is allowed to have that alone time and space… and when their alone becomes something they wanna do together its even more of an intimately incredible experience. I’m a photographer by heart, and Boom builds… we both have several things we do together… we might be on the same sim doing absolutely separate things but we are still together and around one another and we enjoy that even more. When the time comes and we’ve had enough alone time I just use my paragon on him to make him laugh. Unless he’s doing something important… then I’m a patient girl…
Long distances help us remember that being patient is an absolute necessary trait that we must have. If you can’t be patient you will never know what to do when you are together. In the past few years I have rushed every relationship I ever had.. This is the first one I’ve successfully said that I want to take my time and learn who I am with him and who he is. Something that is true and right always conquers. Always. Even when that person that we love is thousands of miles away… you still feel their presence and essence in a song… or a thought… or even your prayers at night. My dreams tell me that change is coming. Change is the most scariest of feelings. But change has to happen in order for us to grow. You can grow as a person or grow together with your partner. I’ve never had a partner in my life and I’m still learning what being a partner means. I think taking things day-by-day is absolutely healthy for anyone. It can help keep the anxiety down, keep the depression at bay, and help keep the smile on your face.
Because of this man, my heart and health have been improving. It’s all because of you, honey.
“Long distance relationships are hard, but they’re also incredible. If you can love, trust, respect, and support each other from a distance then you’ll be unstoppable once you’re physically together..” — unknown.